A concerned frugal reader’s questions

cloth diapers
This is the text of an email I recently received from a new reader.  She made an excellent point and so I have asked her if I can publish her concerns here. I have also published my response. I did edit (just a little) for grammar and spelling.
Hey Michelle:
I am a new subscriber to your blog, and I love it! Well most of it. The thing is ( and please don’t take offense) I think that promoting gDiapers goes totally against what your blog seems to be trying to say. I feel like you talk about frugality and sustainability and staying away from consumerism as much as possible.
G-diapers are pretty rad, Iwill give you that. But they are expensive as all get out and not really that sustainable because they have to be made from natural resources that just get tossed at the end of the change. Plus you are buying refills all the time just as you would with disposables. I read your article about the ten things you don’t need when you are having a baby and frankly these seem like they would fit on that list. I feel good old pre folds (or any reusable diaper) are the most cost efficient and the best choice for sustainability.
Maybe i am totally off base. I am relatively new to all of this ( diapering, parenting, living as green as I can etc.) I know you said you used to use cloth so you have experience with both and probably have great reasons for switching (please feel free to share).
I really really don’t want you to think I am rude, I love your site and all your great tips for living frugally and in harmony with the earth. I too am a stay at home mom with ambitions to homeschool and am always looking for ways to stretch our one small income. I am so thankful for stumbling onto your site as you are really an inspiration.
I hope my loud opinion does not irritate you too much.
Thanks for your time
Dana
And here’s my reply (I sent this to Dana by email and am now publishing it here):
Hi Dana,
Not at all! What a great point you make! Can I post your comment on my site? First off, I must state that I love the gDiapers covers and use them often with plain old cloth diapers. However, I know many people who, for them, a gDiaper is a good first stepping stone. I like the idea of bridging the gap between disposables and cloth. For those people, to see that using a cover isn’t such a pain, is a good experience - whether with a liner or a cloth diaper.
But your point is well taken that I am not exactly promoting frugality. Although, I do promote investing in cloth diapers and covers of your choice and passing them on to other children (whether your own or someone else’s). I guess I thought of gDiapers as an investment in the same way - but giving parents the option of going a more “disposable route” or “cloth route” - I guess in this case, I figure if people are going to eschew frugality for convenience - I’d rather have them at least be green about it!
Does that make any sense?
Thanks so much for writing!
All best,
Michelle
What is your opinion on this issue? I do not use gDiapers exclusively (because they are expensive), but do like their covers a lot. Please leave your comments - and remember, the contest is still going on!

4 Responses

  1. Christy  •  July 13, 2008 @6:09 pm

    I think that the point is valid, but having just bought the gdiapers, I have enjoyed the results. You can use the inserts for compost or you can flush/throw them away. (which is made from materials that are plastic free and break down in 50-100 days—is that not a good thing?) It has been a good choice for us as far as making the switch from disposable to cloth, and yes I do love the covers–these are the best ones that I have found. We have tried several covers and I just haven’t been satisfied with any of them due to the fact that they would shrink when washed, did not fit properly, etc…
    Maybe I am missing something key here, but I felt that we were making a good investment. Any other thoughts?
    Thanks for posing the question, Dana.

  2. Chandra  •  July 14, 2008 @2:54 am

    This was a huge issue for me when I first started out with gDiapers- I “dispose” of a portion of it anyway, and they are more expensive than traditional disposables. But like Michelle pointed out, they are a great stepping stone.

    For me purchasing gDiapers with flushable inserts has led me to using cloth diapers, something that most likely would not have happened without that transitional step. Also, I do consider the gDiapers part of my “cloth” options, as I use prefolds in them most of the time. With that in mind, it is very convenient for me to be able to put a flushable insert in the gDiaper for whatever reason. I know that I can feel good about disposing of the flushable, I’m not buying traditional disposables and for whatever reason I have the “disposable” option I need.

    I hope that makes sense. I completely see where Dana is coming from. The “sticker shock” of gDiapers can be a lot to take, but if you consider any Fuzzibunz, Bum Genius or other all in one/pocket style diaper, the cost doesn’t seem as out of control. If you are a prefold/cover user then by all means $20 for a diaper is going to sound insane.

    It’s all about where you are coming from and where you are going- if half the world switched from disposables to gDiapers, maybe half of those folks would switch to cloth…who knows?

    All around, way to go gDiapers for trying to bridge the gap, and way to go those of us who’ve jumped the gap and happily landed on the cloth side of diapering. It’s soft, clean, and reusable over here!

  3. Rachel  •  July 17, 2008 @10:01 am

    For me, gDiapers were a stepping stone. I never would have been able to make the transition to regular cloth diapers without them. It was just too big of a change from what I was used to. The gDiapers let me see that it really wasn’t that hard and now I’m almost exclusively cloth diapering.

    Since I’m still fairly new to cloth diapering, I use the gDiapers as a backup when I forget to do the laundry.

  4. christene  •  July 21, 2008 @6:42 am

    I am using gdiapers as a stepping stone for my SO to cloth. He’s trying but this seemed like the best in between. He liking the fitted cloths but still not comfortable taking the baby out in them. So seems he will be taking the baby on outings in only G’s and hopefully use cloth at home or at least a trifold/prefold in the G’s.

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